Relationships....

"Relationships are the glue that holds a church together. Friendships are the key to retaining members. A friend once told me of a survey he took in a church. When he asked, 'Why did you join this church?' - 93% of the members said, 'I joined because of the pastor.' He then asked, 'What if the pastor leaves? Will you leave?' 93% said 'No.' When he asked why they wouldn’t leave, the response was 'Because I have friends here!' Do you notice the shift in allegiance? This is normal and healthy....

EMOTIONAL LOVE STORY

EMOTIONAL LOVE STORY OF A FLUTE PLAYER

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It was a humid and sultry morning, typical of Mumbai weather in the month of May. Sakshi was cleaning the living room of her parents' one-bedroom flat. Suddenly, she started to hear the melodious sound of a high-pitch flute that was coming from the balcony of the building right opposite hers. She knew who was playing it. She also knew that it had to be the same sad song that the flute player had been playing all the time. The song was “Javoon Kahan Bata Ai Dil” sung by Mukesh from the old film Chhoti Bahen -- it was one of the popular songs of the great music duo Shankar-Jaikishen. But after a few minutes, the flute player changed the tune, and Sakshi could clearly hear a classical tune being played. Sakshi stretched her years to grasp the sound. Yes, Sakshi recognized the raga. It was raga Jogiya -- the one that puts the listener into a very sad mood.

Sakshi could not believe that her college mate, Akshay, the flute player living across her building, could now play classical music on his flute. Sakshi liked Akshay as he was very innocent and an honest person with a cherubic face. He was her classmate in her science college, studying B.Sc. They both shared a good relationship and helped each other with their college homework. But Akshay always looked very morose. He always thought that no girl ever looked at him romantically. This thought always bothered him. He always desired to get romantically involved with some girl, especially when he saw around him so many young people having romantic affairs. He wanted to be loved romantically by the opposite sex and then offer his love in return. He was a very emotional person too. He would not have been a musician if he were not emotional. He always preferred to play on his flute sad film songs from old Hindi films. Sometimes the intensity of his flute notes could make the listeners cry with tears rolling down their eyes.

Especially with Akshay, Sakshi had a platonic relationship. She always tried to help him out psychologically whenever he was low. She always tried to lift his spirits up. But she never looked at him romantically. As the classical sound became more intense with the highflying notes of raga Jogiya, Sakshi could not wait. She left the cleaning job right away and started running towards the opposite building to see Akshay. She was highly astonished to see that Akshay, who until yesterday could only play simple film songs, could now play classical music on his small flute. This was a big surprise for her. She could not wait until she talked to Akshay. She reached Akshay's building and then started to climb the stairway of the building hurriedly as if there was some kind of emergency. People stepping down the stairway from the opposite side seemed to be annoyed at her. Finally, she reached the third floor. She almost started running in order to reach Akshay's flat. Sakshi pressed the doorbell and Akshay opened the door.

Sakshi asked, “Hey, Akshay. When did you learn to play classical music? I cannot believe this.”

“Oh, well. What do you mean? You think I can play only film songs on my flute?” Akshay quipped.

“Oh no! I know you are a great flute player since you play that sad song by Mukesh, Javoon Kahan all the time,” Sakshi replied jokingly.

“Well, people always looked down upon me, since I was only playing film songs and I did not know classical music, so I decided to learn classical music from a flute master about three years ago. I did not play classical music on the flute in public until I had gained enough confidence. But even after learning classical music, I still like to play old Hindi film songs. This gives me a great psychological satisfaction,” Akshay said.

“Oh! You kept it a secret all along that you were learning classical music,” Sakshi said.

“Yes. I had to keep it a secret until I mastered classical music on my flute. But still I do not understand why the classical music buffs look down upon old Hindi film songs, many of which are based on classical ragas. After all, many of these classical music-based Hindi songs inspire and motivate millions of listeners all over the world. I have a tremendous respect for those old Hindi film music directors who composed so many songs based on classical music,” Akshay replied.

“Akshay, you already know the answer. Classical music is very intricate, and it is for the elite classes and pop music is for the masses and this scenario will never change. Let us leave aside this topic of classes and masses for a moment. Now that you know classical music, can you tell me on which raga your favorite song is based? I mean “Javoon kahan bata ai dil.” Sakshi wanted to test the waters.

“Oh, that song is based on raga Jhinjhoti. Do you remember that other song “Ja ja re ja balam va” from old film Basant Bahar and that Kishore Kumar number “Koyi ham dam na raha” from the film Jhumroo and also “Mose chal kiye ja” from the film Guide? All these songs have the same Bandishi or set of dominating notes derived from raga Jhinjhoti. Raga Jhinjhoti is derived from Khamaj thata and its jati is sampoorna-sampoorna meaning there are 7 notes each in aroha and avaroha. In raga Jhinjhoti, the aroha uses all 7 shudh swaras, which are Sa Re Ga Ma Pa Dha Ni, and in avaroha it uses the same set of 7 swaras in reverse except that it uses komal Ni. So avaroha notes are Sa Ni (komal) Dha Pa Ma Ga Re.

The vaadi (main note) is Gandhar and samvaadi (second important note) is Nishad, but some musicians use Dhaivat as samvaadi. This raga is usually played in the second prahar of the night,” Akshay explained.

“Hats off to you, Akshay. You are a pro in classical music now. I can now say that you have mastered classical music. Next time when I want to find out the raga for some other song, I will have to come back to you,” Sakshi said while encouraging him.

“But all this flute playing is not going to help me, Sakshi. Please tell me when I am going to find my Love. After I started playing the flute well, I thought someone would get attracted towards me. But nothing of this sort has happened so far. I had read the stories in Mahabharata about how Gopikas used to surround Lord Krishna, whenever he started playing his flute. Why is this not happening to me?” Akshay asked.

“Only time will tell. But right now I can say that you do not play the flute as well as Lord Krishna, and this could be the reason why nobody is attracted to you. But I am sure someday you will find your love and then you will not have time to talk to me,” Sakshi said.

“I do not think so, Sakshi. Now I feel that I might never find that Love which I am longing for. My only hope is you. Please tell me when will be that day when our platonic relationship will change to a romantic relationship?” Akshay said naively with a sad undertone.

“Oh, come on! I cannot answer you on this one. You know the famous Urdu poet Mirza Ghalib's famous sher (poem) “Ishq par jor nahin” meaning love cannot be forced upon, which also implies that it has to happen automatically after something from inside dictates you to do it, but I do not know what that something is, Akshay. I do not think I can answer your question,” Sakshi replied.

The colleges reopened again in June after the summer vacations. A new student, Preeti had joined Sakshi's college. Preeti's last name was close to those of Sakshi and Akshay. Preeti had been transferred to Sakshi's college from another suburban college of Mumbai. Since all the three last names came one after another, they used to be together for their science practicals. Preeti soon became a friend to both Sakshi and Akshay. Preeti was very beautiful, and she had a very charming personality. Soon she became a close friend of Sakshi although she maintained a distance from Akshay. They all were in a crucial final year of the B.Sc. Degree.

Preeti was very smart at her studies, and she was helpful to both Sakshi and Akshay and helped both of them whenever they had problems understanding some science concepts.

Once, there was a concert in the college where Akshay played a few classical ragas on his flute. Until then, Preeti didn't know that Akshay was a great flute player. She attended the flute concert along with Sakshi. Akshay performed extremely well at the concert. Preeti was a classical buff and enjoyed the concert very much. Later on, Sakshi came to know that Preeti had started to attend every concert of Akshay. Sakshi could see the changes in Preeti's attitude towards Akshay. Sometimes she used to go out of the way and wait for Akshay until he finished his laboratory work in college.

Sakshi soon had a sneaky suspicion that maybe Preeti was falling in love with Akshay. By now, Sakshi knew Preeti very well. Preeti was very close to her. Preeti was very ambitious and aggressive, whereas Akshay was very timid in nature and lacked assertiveness. Sakshi knew very well that in the long run, say if both of them got married, it may not work out. Because her gut feeling was that Akshay being very innocent and honest would not be able to succeed in whatever career he chose, Sakshi could see the incompatibility between Preeti and Akshay. But on the other hand, Sakshi was very happy that now after a long wait, Akshay had found his love that he had been looking for a long time. So Sakshi had contradictory thoughts running through her mind.

One day, Sakshi found Akshay in a very good mood, which was something that she had never seen before. At that point it appeared that Akshay could not wait to tell Sakshi some big news.

“What's the matter, Akshay? You are in a very good mood today,” Sakshi said.

“I have a feeling that Preeti likes me very much. I will not be surprised if in the near future she discloses her love for me,” Akshay replied.

“I hope so, Akshay. I think that you are finally close to finding your love,” Sakshi said.

Sakshi was now wondering why Preeti had never told her about it as she was very close to her. Sakshi became very impatient and could not wait until she saw Preeti the next day in their college.

“Preeti, will you mind if I ask a very personal question?” Sakshi asked.

“Go ahead, Sakshi. You are like my sister now, you can ask me any personal question,” Preeti replied.

“I see lots of changes in your attitude towards Akshay. Please tell me if you are in love with him," Sakshi asked.

“Oh Gosh! Sakshi, why do you say that?” Preeti replied.

“Because Akshay thinks that you are in love with him. Akshay expressed his feelings about you to me yesterday. You have been attending Akshay's every flute concert. You go out of the way to help him out at every step. So I thought something unusual was happening here between you two, and if it is true I am glad about that,” Sakshi said.

“Oh no! Do you really want to know why I am getting close to him?” Preeti asked.

“Yes,” Sakshi replied.

“I did not tell you until now about a tragedy in my family. About one year ago, my only brother, Ramesh, who was elder to me by 2 years, died in a car accident. Akshay has lots of similarities with Ramesh. Ramesh was also a classical flute player; and what surprised me further was that Akshay played the flute in the same style as my brother Ramesh did and played almost the same ragas as well. I loved my brother Ramesh a lot like any other sister would do. Akshay is very innocent, just like my brother Ramesh was. I see lots of similarities between Akshay and my deceased brother, Ramesh. So I feel that I've found my lost brother, Ramesh. I see Ramesh in Akshay all the time. Actually, I myself should have told this to Akshay and you much earlier. But since this was a very touchy issue for me, I waited for a while. I am actually in love with a bank officer, Rohan who lives in Pune with whom I am going to get married within the next few months, right after my B.Sc. graduation,” Preeti said.

“This is a terrible situation now, because Akshay has misunderstood your responses. What will happen now? I think it is a good idea to disclose this to Akshay as soon as possible. I have to go and tell Akshay about this fact, before it is too late,” Sakshi said.

“Yes. You should do that. I will highly appreciate that. Also tell him I apologise for not telling him about this fact earlier,” Preeti said.

Sakshi could not wait until she told this fact to Akshay. She waited for two days. Then one day when Akshay was sitting alone in the college cafeteria, Sakshi went and sat next to him.

“Akshay, I want to inform you about an important thing about Preeti,” Sakshi said.

“What is it? What is it?” Akshay almost jumped from his chair as he was overjoyed and thought that finally he was going to hear from Sakshi the confirmation that Preeti loved him.

“I hope you will not mind if I tell you the facts right now. Please listen to me carefully,” Sakshi said.

Then Sakshi told Akshay all the facts and told him that it was really a sisterly love that Preeti was displaying towards him. Sakshi also told him that Preeti was already engaged and was going to get married in Pune in a few months time with Rohan, a bank officer, soon after her B.Sc. graduation. Akshay started to weep. Sakshi also could not control herself. Both Akshay and Sakshi cried for a long time. Both of them could not control their sorrow. Everybody in the cafeteria was watching them in order to know what was happening. After some time, Akshay calmed down and once again looked sad just like he used to before Preeti came into his life.

Akshay got up from the chair and said, “Sakshi, go and tell Preeti that next year on Raksha Bandhan day, I will visit her house in Pune, and she will tie Rakhi around my wrist on that day. Tell her that this is a promise from a loving brother. I am sure that she will be happy to find her lost brother on the next Raksha Bandhan day; but please tell her to give me Rohan's address in Pune before she leaves Mumbai.”

Sakshi felt very sad but relieved. She knew that Akshay was completely disillusioned and would never find the love that he was looking for. As promised, Sakshi came back to Preeti and told her about the whole incident with Akshay, and told her about Akshay's promise that he would visit her in Pune on the next Raksha Bandhan day and that she would tie the Rakhi around his wrist. Preeti was very saddened for a while but later recovered after noting Akshay's promise. And just before she left Mumbai for her marriage with Rohan in Pune, she did give Rohan's address to Sakshi, which Sakshi passed on to Akshay.

After a few months, Preeti got married in Pune. Sakshi attended the marriage, although Akshay was invited, he did not attend the marriage, since for the past couple of weeks he seemed out of his mind. Sakshi returned to Mumbai soon after Preeti's marriage. Another two months passed.

One day, late in the night, around 11 p.m., Sakshi's phone started ringing. Sakshi picked up the phone and said, “Hi, Sakshi here.”

“Hi! This is Preeti from Pune,” Preeti said from the other end.

“How are you, Preeti? I just returned back only an hour ago from my native place after a two-week stay. I went alone… ” Sakshi said.

Before Sakshi could finish her conversation, Preeti interrupted.

“Sakshi, I cannot believe this. I cannot believe this at all. You know today is Raksha Bandhan day and Akshay fulfilled his promise. If you may recall, only last year Akshay had promised me that he would come to my house on the next Raksha Bandhan day so that I could tie the Rakhi around his wrist. He fulfilled his promise; Akshay paid a surprise visit to my house today, and I was very happy to tie the Rakhi around his wrist. Akshay gave me a golden necklace as a gift from a brother. And after Raksha Bandhan, Akshay left my house in a very happy mood. I requested him to have coffee etc. but he did not wait, and he seemed to be in a hurry to get back. I felt so good; I cannot describe my feelings. I feel completely satisfied,” Preeti replied.

After hearing this from Preeti, Sakshi jumped out from her bed with the receiver still in her left hand while still continued talking to Preeti.

“Preeti, what are you saying? Did this event really happen? The reason I'm asking this is because after I returned back from my native place tonight, I came to know from my parents about a very tragic event. Only a week ago, in order to find solace for himself, Akshay went to the hill station of Mahabaleshwar for roaming around the hills while playing his flute. One day after he reached Mahabaleshwar, his dead body was found by the police in the valley down below. Akshay died under mysterious circumstances. Then from the medical examiners report and eyewitness accounts from the hitchhikers, the police made a report about the probable cause of Akshay's death. From this report, it was clear that Akshay had been playing his flute on a cliff of the mountain and after a little while may have lost his balance and fallen deep down into the valley, or he may have committed suicide by jumping down the valley from the cliff. Police could not determine the exact cause or whether it was accident or suicide,” Sakshi said.

This news came as a big shock to Preeti. She could barely hold the receiver. She started crying in disbelief, which Sakshi could clearly hear.

“Sakshi, then who was the person to whom I tied the Rakhi today?” Preeti asked.

“Preeti, it could be Akshay's soul. Normally, I do not believe in souls, ghosts and supernatural things etc. But it is quite possible. Akshay's soul might have come to your house in human form. May be it was his ghost. Do you remember the promise that Akshay made to you last year that he would come to your house on the next Raksha Bandhan day and you would tie the Rakhi around his wrist? He fulfilled that promise today. Oh! I cannot believe this at all, I do not know what I am saying. I am confused, Preeti. The event you described may not be real after all, and this could probably be your hallucination. How is it possible that Akshay, who died one week ago, could personally come to your house today for Raksha Bandhan? Preeti, do you want to know something more? It seemed that Akshay already had a premonition about his death. After the police found Akshay's body, they also found a note in his pant pockets written by Akshay which stated that in the event of his death, all his beloved flutes be cremated along with his body. And Akshay's last wish was fulfilled by his father,” Sakshi started sobbing.

“No! No! It was a real event. Sakshi, please do not say that it was my hallucination. Please! Please! I really tied Rakhi around his wrist today,” Preeti said desperately.

It appeared to Sakshi that Preeti was only focusing on the statement about hallucination made by Sakshi.

Sakshi could not control her emotions, and before Preeti could finish her conversation from the other end, Sakshi put down the phone abruptly. The phone started to ring again. Sakshi knew that this call must be from Preeti again. At least for this moment, Sakshi was in no mood to pick up the receiver as she started thinking about the incident described by Preeti. Somehow, Sakshi was sure that the Raksha Bandhan event described by Preeti was definitely her hallucination, because Preeti saw her deceased brother Ramesh in Akshay.

So her emotions must have become intense on Rakhsa Bandhan day. Sakshi was just trying to reason herself. Otherwise, how else could one explain it? Slowly, the song “Javoon kahan bata ai dil”, which was Akshay's favorite sad song, started to play in the ears of Sakshi. The ringing of this song inside her ears overpowered the ringing sound of the phone. Sakshi started to think about the sad incidents. This duniya (world) was really sangdil (cruel) to Akshay who never found the kind of love that he longed for. This duniya also included Sakshi. Sakshi began to think. “Why couldn't Akshay find his love? Was it due to the circumstances? Or was it due to Akshay's naïve character?” Sakshi could not figure this out. Now that Akshay was gone, Sakshi started to talk to herself in agony, “Maybe I could have helped him out of the situation. But how? I respected Akshay for all his virtues, but could never look at him from a romantic angle.”

WADA.....

"Kya Hua Tera Wada"
Is taraha yu wada thod kar na ja,
Mujhe is taraha akela chod kar na ja,
Agar is taraha akela chod kar hi jana tha tho kyo zindgi mein aye,
Agar sath nahi nibhana tha tho kyo sath jine ke sapne dikhaye,
Teri in ankho mein mujhe aaj bhi wafa nazar aa rahi hai,
Phir na jaane kyo tu mujhe chod kar ja rahi hai,
Har lamha thujko meri yaad satayegi,
Mere bin ye zindgi teri kat na payegi,
Ye tu janti hai ya tera rab janta hai,
Ki mere bin tu bhi rahe na payegi,
Mohabbat meri ye ek din aisa rang layegi,
Tu duad kar aa mujhe gale lagayegi.................

"USKE PYAR KA AHESAS..."

Na jaane kyo who hume itna pyar karte hai,
Hamari har baat par atbar karte hai,
In ankho mein kuch sapne liye,
Humse milne ka intzar karte hai,
Har aahat par lage unhe ki hum aa gaye,
Na jaane kab hum unke dil mein sama gaye,
Dekhte-hi-dekhte mere is dil mein,
Who bhi apni jagah bana gaye,
Ahsas apne pyar ka mujhko dila gaye,
Mohabbat ke is dariya mein mujko duba gaye,
Ye uska or uske pyar ka ahsas hai,
Jo pathar ko bhi moom bana gaya hai,
Is dil ko pyar karna sikha diya hai...........

THE BIRD'S TRUE LOVE

'एक चिडिया को एक सफ़ेद गुलाब से प्यार हो गया , उसने गुलाब को प्रपोस किया ,गुलाब ने जवाब दिया की जिस दिन मै लाल हो जाऊंगा उस दिन मै तुमसे प्यार करूँगा ,जवाब सुनके चिडिया गुलाब के आस पास काँटों में लोटने लगी और उसके खून से गुलाब लाल हो गया,ये देखके गुलाब ने भी उससे कहा की वो उससे प्यार करता है पर तब तक चिडिया मर चुकी थीइसीलिए कहा गया है की सच्चे प्यार का कभी भी इम्तहान नहीं लेना चाहिए,क्यूंकि सच्चा प्यार कभी इम्तहान का मोहताज नहीं होता है ,ये वो फलसफा; है जो आँखों से बया होता है ,ये जरूरी नहीं की तुम जिसे प्यार करो वो तुम्हे प्यार दे ,बल्कि जरूरी ये है की जो तुम्हे प्यार करे तुम उसे जी भर कर प्यार दो,फिर देखो ये दुनिया जन्नत सी लगेगीप्यार खुदा की ही बन्दगी है ,खुदा भी प्यार करने वालो के साथ रहता है.....I

Love Story....

1 din 1 ladke ne 1 ladki ko dekha wo uska diwana ho gaya. Ku6 din baad ladke ko pata chala ki ladki ki "CD" ki shop he to wo hr roj uske shope me 1 cd kharidta.
Daily... Ku6 mahine baad ladki ko pata chal gaya ki he loves me. Lekin 1 din jb ladka cd lene gaya to uska car accident me maut ho gai. Ye Pata chalne pr ladki uske ghar gai. Ladke ki mane use uska kamra bataya to ladki ne dekha ki uski shope se li hui hr cd abi pack hi he , ye jan kr use bahut dukh hua kyoki wo har cd , jo wo kharidta tha usme "LOVE LETER" likhke rakhti thi. " " its a very trejic love story. kaisi lagi??
Reply must.. And plz plz plz send ds 2 atleast 11 friend , mujhe milakar, agar 8 vapis aye , thats u wil get ur true love. Its not joke .......i

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A GIRL & A BOY...

One night a girl and a boy were sitting in a car.There was a complete silence.Both of them stayed quiet for long.Then the girl gave him a chit of paper, and the boy before reading it told the girl (with embarrassing expression) that he wants to leave her.Then suddenly an overspeeded car collided with their car.The girl died and the boy somehow survived and when he opened the chit (which was in his pocket), he dropped a tear bcoz the girl had written only 1 line on it which waz ::”If you'll leave me i'll die”.. ..

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AN ASTROLOGER....

एक ज्योतिषी और उसका चेला एक जहाज पर यात्रा कर रहे थे। अचानक जोरदार तूफान आ गया । लगा कि अब जहाज डूब ही जाएगा। लोगों में चीखपुकार मच गई। सब जान बचाने के लिए इधर उधर भागने लगे । पर जाएं तो जाएं कहां । तब ज्योतिषी ने उन लोगों से कहा कि घबराओ नहीं यह जहाज नहीं डूबेगा। तेरी तरह एक बेवकूफ वहां भी था। उसने ज्योतिषी से पूछा कि उसे कैसे मालूम कि जहाज नहीं डूबेगा। उसने बताया कि वह एक ज्योतिषी है और उसे मालूम है कि यह जहाज नहीं डूबेगा। लोगों में घबराहट कुछ कम हुई । तूफान गुजर गया और किस्मत से जहाज नहीं डूबा। फिर क्या था, लोगों ने ज्योतिषी को पैसों से लाद दिया । जब वे लोग मंजिल पर पहुंच गए तो चेले ने पूछा - महाराज, मैं आपका चेला हूं। बीस साल से आपके साथ हूं। मुझे मालूम है कि आप इतने ज्ञानी नहीं हैं कि यह जान सकें कि जहाज डूबेगा या नहीं। फिर आपने यह कैसे जाना कि जहाज नहीं डूबेगा ? ज्योतिषी ने जवाब दिया - मैंने कुछ नहीं जाना । मैंने तो बस तुक्का मारा था। अब चेले को गुस्सा आ गया। बोला - आपने तुक्का मारा था ? अगर जहाज डूब जाता तो ? - तो कुछ नहीं । फिर वहां कुछ पूछने के लिए बचता ही कौन . . .?

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To all the guys..

To all the guys who read this…..please read fully and understand………….. To all the girls who read this……….. An excellent forward……please read fully..... and forward to the boys you know………. This is a beautiful article: The woman in your life...very well expressed... Tomorrow you may get a working woman, butyou should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family, name One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you; One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise One, who can be late from work once in a while whendeadlines, just like yours, are to be met; One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her; One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER" I hope you will do.... Respect Her.Forward this to as many women as possible... they'll love you for it! Forward this to as many men as you can so that they'll know why women are so special :-) who read this…..please read fully and understand………….. To all the girls who read this……….. An excellent forward……please read fully..... and forward to the boys you know………. This is a beautiful article: The woman in your life...very well expressed... Tomorrow you may get a working woman, butyou should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family, name One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you; One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise One, who can be late from work once in a while whendeadlines, just like yours, are to be met; One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her; One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER" I hope you will do.... Respect Her.Forward this to as many women as possible... they'll love you for it! Forward this to as many men as you can so that they'll know why women are so special :-) ...

THANKS TO ALL YOU....

DILSHAD SAIFI

OUR FAMILY....

THE FAMILY........

ALL FAMILY MEMBERS SHOULD READ THIS, ESPECIALLY CHILDREN! These crooks are getting very good! A lady has changed her habit of how she lists her names in her cell phone directory after her handbag was stolen. Her handbag, which contained her cell phone, credit card, purse, etc.., was stolen. Twenty minutes later she called her husband, from a pay telephone telling him what had happened. Her husband said, 'I have just received your text message asking about our pin number and I have replied a little while ago.' When they rushed down to the bank, the staff told them all the money was already withdrawn. The thief had actually used the stolen cell phone to text her husband listed in the directory and got hold of their pin number. Within twenty minutes he had withdrawn all the money from their bank account. Moral of the lesson: Do not disclose the relationship between you and the people on your call list.. Avoid using names like Home, Honey, Hubby, Sweetheart, Mom, Dad, etc., And very importantly, when sensitive information is being asked for through text messages, CONFIRM by calling back. Also, when you are being text by friends or family to meet them somewhere, be sure to call back to confirm that the message came from them... If you do not reach them, be very careful about going places to meet 'family and friends' who text you. PLEASE PASS THIS ON. I never thought about THAT! As of right now, do you have 'home' listed in your cell phone directory?

TODAY'S FACTS

नमस्कार/ ASSLAWALIKUM , मै दिलशाद सैफी ....

मेरे आँगन में पहले इक्का-दुक्का फिर सहसा ढेरों गुलाब खिल उठे। नया-नया घर था. बगीचें में गुलाब न हों तो बात जमती नही. अभी यह नजारा दो-चार दिन ही चला था कि फूल गायब होने लगे. हप्ते भर की चौकीदारी के बाद मैंने एक दिन भोर की बेला में पडोंस की कच्ची बस्ती में रहने वाली एक भद्र सी दिखाई देने वाली महिला को पकड़ ही लिया. पूछने पर वह बड़ी बेशर्मी से बोली, “पूजा के लिए तोड़े है.”“क्यों भाई, क्या तुम चोरी के फूलों से पूजा करोगी?”वह भुनभुनाती हुई चली गई. “बड़ी बंगले वाली बनती है. दो-चार फूल क्या तोड़ लिए गजब हों गया.अगला अटैक पडोसन की बेटी का था, “हाय आंटी, मैं जरा उससे मिलने जा रही हूँ. एक फूल ले लूं ?” लिहाज के मारे मैं कुछ बोलूँ,उससे पहले उसने सबसे बड़ा और सुन्दर फूल तोड़ा,फिर तो आये दिन यही होता रहा और में मनन मसोसकर रह जाती थी. बाद में तो बस सूचना भर आती, “आंटी मैंने आपका एक गुलाब ले लिया था.” मेरा तो मन मसोसकर रह जाता था. जी मे आता था कि गला दबा दू मगर क्या करू पड़ोस का ख्याल करना पड़ता था. वैसे भी अगर चुपचाप तोड़ ले जाती तो में उसका क्या कर सकती थी?“हाय!हाय!क्या गुलाब खिले है? क्या करती हों इनका? अरे भाई पंखुडियां सुखाकर गुलकंद या शरबत क्यों नही बनातीं?”साथ ही बनाने का तरीका भी बताती गई.दिल जलकर राख हो गया. इतनी मेहनत से गुलाब उगाये है की उन्हें आगन में झूमता-इतराता देखूं. सुगंध से आँगन महकता रहे,और ये है कि गुलकंद और शरबत बनाने की बात कर रही है. बाजार ढेरों गुलकंद और शरबत उपलब्ध है. उसके लिए मेहनत की जरूरत क्या है. उनके मुताबिक हर वस्तु को उपयोग या धन में बदलना जरूरी है. डाली पर खिले फूल का सौंदर्य उन्हें बेकार लगता है.आँगन में खिले गुलाब अब एक पैमाना बन गए है. हर व्यक्ति की दृष्टि में उनका एक अलग और सही उपयोग है. अम्मा उनसे पुष्पहार बनाकर ठाकुर की पूजा में चढाने को उनका सही उपयोग मानती है. नन्ही बिटिया अपनी मैडम को देने में. गुप्ता जी जब किसी उत्सव,शादी-व्याह जा रहे होते है तो एक निगाह हमारी बगिया पर डालना न भूलते. पर वे कभी अपनी इच्छा व्यक्त न कर सके और हमारे गुलाब बचे रहे.खैर गुलाब की झाडियाँ काट-छाँट दी गयी. उनमे फिर से पत्ते व शाखें उग आई. अब फिर से फूलों का मौसम आ गया. आप भी अपने आँगन में गुलाब उगाईये. अपनी रातों की नींद उडाईये, साथ ही व्यक्ति परीक्षण की कसौटी भी बना लीजिये .......

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gOOD tHAUGHTS....

• A Bill of Rights is what the people are entitled to against every government, and what no just government should refuse, or rest on inference.
• All, too, will bear in mind this sacred principle, that though the will of the majority is in all cases to prevail, that will to be rightful must be reasonable; that the minority possess their equal rights, which equal law must protect, and to violate would be oppression.

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• A system of morality which is based on relative emotional values is a mere illusion, a thoroughly vulgar conception which has nothing sound in it and nothing.....

• A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker। A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker.

• A jug fills drop by ड्रॉप.

• All that we are is the result of what we have thought। If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him.

• All things appear and disappear because of the concurrence of causes and conditions। Nothing ever exists entirely alone; everything is in relation to everything else.

• He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes।

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कुछ ऐसे ...........

KUCH AISE....



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