FRIENDSHIP

FRIENDSHIP:
.¸¸.•?´F........FAITHFUL•´`•.¸​.»
•.¸¸.•?´R........RELIABLE•´`•.​¸.»
•.¸¸.•?´I.........INTRESTING•´​`•.¸.»
•.¸¸.•?´N........NICE •´`•.¸.»
•.¸¸.•?´D........DIFFERENT•´`•​.¸.»
•.¸¸.•?´S........SHARING•´`•.¸​.»
•.¸¸.•?´H........HELPFUL•´`•.¸​.»
•.¸¸.•?´I.........INCREDIBLE•´​`•.¸.»
•.¸¸.•?´P........PATIENT•´`•.¸​.»HOW ARE
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Mohd.  Dilshad

My Love

“Love is like a friendship caught on fire.
In the beginning a flame,
very pretty, Often hot and fierce,
But still only light and flickering.
As love grows older,
Our hearts mature
And our love becomes as coals,
Deep-burning and unquenchable.”


Mohd. Dilshad

RAMZAAN MUBARAK

Ramzaan ka mubarak mahina,
Allah ki ibaadat ka mahina
Mohabbat uss mabood ki,
Ahmiyat uss khudai ilm ki..
Yahi hai rah-e-khudai ka mahina..
Ramzaan ka mubarak mahina..





Dear Friend! May Divine Pour His blessings on you 

like rain throughout this holy month recite Quran for blessings b caring about your prayers the Merciful 
will give u more than your heart desires. 


"Ramzaan Mubarak"




Mohd.  Dilshad
+91-9871758199

TERE BIN MAIN

Maine tumse pyar kiya hai
isliye eqrar kiya hai
ye dard kaisa utha hai Dil me
kya ye pyar ki saza hai??
pyar to ek ehsas hai jise dekha nahi jata, chuaa nahi jata
kaise batau ki ab tumhare bina mujhse raha nahi jata
tum door ho mujhse is kadar
jaise door hai ek doosre se aakash or sagar
in doorio se ye pyar na hoga kam
ab ek dooje se kabhi juda na honge humdekho ye jamin ye nadi ye ambar
pucho inse
kyun hus rahe hain ye hum par
zara dekho ye diye
kyun hai ye bujhe se
kyun pooch rahe hai ek duje se
ki hum door kyun hai ek duje se
hawa bhi hai soi si
nadi bhi hai thami si
tumhare bina zindgi me kuch to hai kami si
in doorio ko mitao na 
zara muskura k pass to aao na. . . . .

tum sath hoti agar to ye bebasi hoti na..
tum pass hoti agar to ye zindgi aisi hoti na..


Kashh.....Kashh....Kashh


Bus ab to ye zindgi b gujar rahi h isi kashh me..


Dil Kehta hai yahi bar bar  abhi bhi...


TERE BIN MAI DEKHU NA SUBHA...
NIGAHON SE KBHI KA YE WADA KAR LIYA......


DIL................
+91 - 9871758199

Mera Chahat

Uska pyar nahi to mujhe kaza de de


Khuda tu meri zindagi ko parda de de'


main bas nahi paya jiske dil me


us shaksh ko mere dil me jagah de de'


gar usko chahna khata hai meri


Phir shouk se tu mujhko saza de de'


Ya to main ji saku uske bagair 


Ya mujhe chahne ki use wajah de de'


Gar ho sake to mujhe kafir kar de


Nahi to tu mujhko mera khuda de de'


Apni surat me uska chehra nazar aaye


Ye khuda tu mujhko aisa aina de de'


Ya buja de chiraag meri rahoon ke


Ya mujhe meri manzil ka pata de de'


Jane kyun dam nahi nikalta mera


Mere yaar mujhe jeene ki dua de de ?




Dil......................

A GREAT LOVE STORY....

Ek ladka apni girlfrnd se park me rozana milne jata tha.. 

Ladka roz time par pahuchta tha lekin ladki hamsha late phuchti thi. 
Lekin ladka kabhi usse naraz nhi hota tha... 
Ek din ladka park me nhi pahucha to ladki ghusse me ladke ke ghr gai..
 waha pata chala ki ladke ko blood cancer h or wo sirf 5-6 din tk hi jiyega..
 Ladki rote huye ghar pahuchi or ladki ne suciede  kar liya or ladke ke lye ek latter chod gai. 
Us latter me likha tha..


'' TUM MERA HAMESHA WAIT KARTE THE OR ME ROZ LATE AATI THI   

LEKIN 
AAJ ME RUB K PASS TUMSE JALDI PAHUCH RAHI HU OR TUMHRA WAIT KARUNGI''..







SHAD............

Ajnabi Duniya Me Akela Khwab............

Ajnabi Duniya Me Akela Khwab Hu Mei!

Sawalo Se Ghira Ek Jawab Hu Mei!

Jo Na Samajh Sake Unke Lie Koun?

Jo Samajhe Unke Lie Ek Kitaab Hu Mei …

Dilshad Saifi

+91 - 9599237884

MERI CHAHAT

Mere alfazon ko jhuth na samjhna,
yaad aati ho bahut milne ki dua karna,
jee raha hoon tumhara naam lekar,
mar jau to bewafa na samajhna.

Kaise kahu ki apna bana lo mujhe,
Bahaon me apni sama lo mujhe,
Bin tumhare ek pal bhi katta nahi,
Tum aa kar mujhi se chura lo mujhe..

Har raat 1 dhun gungunati hai,
har phool se mehak zarur ati hai,
apke man me beshak hamara khayal tak na ho,
par hame to har waqt aapki yaad aati hai…

Majboor the mohabbat hum jata na sake,
Zakhm khate rahe kisi ko bata na sake..
Chahato ki had tak chaaha use....
Sirf apna Dil nikaal kar use dikha na sake..

TERI YAAD.............

Bikhre aashkon ke moti bana na sake,
Teri yaad mein sari raat so na sake,
Bheeg na jaye aasoo mein tasvir teri,
Bas yehi soch kar hum ro na sake…
`
Hume suläne ki khätir jab raat aati hai,
Hum so nahi pate raat khud so jäti hai,
puchne par dil se ye aawaz aati hai,
aaj unhe yaad kar le raat to roj aati hai..
`
Meri aadat ko wo samajh nahi pate,
Hum bhi unse kuch kah nahi pate,
Ai khuda na jaane ye kaisa yar de diya tune,
Jise yaad kiya bina hum rah nahi pate…
`
Khata ban gaya hai kisi se pyaar karna
saza ban gaya hai kisi pe aitbaar karna
sochta hoon phir khwab sajaun per dil kehta
hai kya tujhe acha lagta hai intezaar karna..
`
Uski yaad mey hum barso rotey rahey
Bewafa wo nikle badnaam hum hote rahey
Mohabbat mey madhoshi ka aalam to dekhiye
Dhool chehre pr thi or hum aaina dhotey rhe…

Our Feelings

"Our feelings of dissatisfaction, unhappiness, loss of hope and so forth are in fact related to all phenomena. If we do not adopt the right outlook, it is possible that anything and everything could cause us frustration. Yet phenomena are part of reality and we are subject to the laws of existence. So this leaves us only one

option:

To change our own attitude. By bringing about a change in our outlook towards things and events, all phenomena can become friends or sources of happiness, instead of becoming enemies or sources of frustration."

A LOST LOVE

A Lost Love

A Feeling of Despair ,The Choking Sobs
an Image of Being Trampled under a Mob.
Constricted Breathing, out of Control
a Feeling of Forever These Moments Stole
Darkness Settles, No Happy Thoughts,
the Battles over Before its Even Fought.
Clouds Drift in ,I Feel the Pain.
I Stand Destroyed in Your Domain
On the Edge of a Chasm, Inviting Cold
Hating Who I Am, a Man with No Soul.
Can You Hear My Cries of Anguish and Despair,
to Live or Die Do I Even Care?
I Know it Sounds Crazy, Not My Usual Peace.
But What to Do with Myself after this Six Year Lease.

Words Spoken to God Mean Nothing Anymore
I Spoke You Spoke Still You Walked out the Door.
How Do I Maintain My Guise as a Man
When Behind Closed Doors I Sift Away like Sand
.To Pick up and Continue What Is the Use?
I Had a Great Woman I Lost Her, I Deserve All Abuse.
I Prayed for Us Daily to God from Above,
And for What Because Evidently There Is No Such Thing as True Love....

Dil..

Make the Life..

We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.

Dil.......

Meri mohabbat hai wo

Meri mohabbat hai wo, koi majboori to nahi
Woh mujhe chahe,ya mil jaye zaroori to nahi,

Yeh kya kuch kam hai ke basa hai meri saanson me
Ab Woh saamne ho meri aankhon ke zaroori to nahin,

Jaan qurbaan meri,us ki har muskurahat pe
Chahat ka takaaza hai yahi,aqal-e-khurori to nahi,

Ab to nikal ke aankhon se,yaadon mein ja basa wo
Yahi hai qurbat-e-chahat,koi doori to nahi......

My Visit at Nepal - India Border

MY VISIT AT NEPAL - INDIA BORDER:

Ek Naya Mausam Aaj Phir Aaya Hai
Aaj Phir Kisi Ne Aankhon Se Ashk Bahaaya Hai

Chhup Gaye Aansoo Aaj Phir Baarish Mein
Dil Mein Phir Gham Ka Sailaab Aaya Hai

Chhupaaye Chal Diye Hum Toh Baarish Mein
Koi Hamein Kabhi Kya Samajh Paaya Hai

Aansoo Ban Kar Aayi Yaad Jo Teri
Ussi Yaad Ne Hamein Hansaaya Hai

Bas Kaash Agar Saath Hote Tum
Toh Mausam Yeh Bhi 100 Rang Laaya Hai........

DILSHAD SAIFI

+91 - 9871758199

“I don't know if I continue, even today, always liking myself. But what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself. It is very important for every human being to forgive herself or himself because if you live, you will make mistakes- it is inevitable. But once you do and you see the mistake, then you forgive yourself and say, 'well, if I'd known better I'd have done better,' that's all. So you say to people who you think you may have injured, 'I'm sorry,' and then you say to yourself, 'I'm sorry.' If we all hold on to the mistake, we can't see our own glory in the mirror because we have the mistake between our faces and the mirror; we can't see what we're capable of being. You can ask forgiveness of others, but in the end the real forgiveness is in one's own self. I think that young men and women are so caught by the way they see themselves. Now mind you. When a larger society sees them as unattractive, as threats, as too black or too white or too poor or too fat or too thin or too sexual or too asexual, that's rough. But you can overcome that. The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself. If we don't have that we never grow, we never learn, and sure as hell we should never teach.”

DILSHAD SAIFI

+91-9015563789

My Family is My World

SAY SORRY...

बॉलीवुड अभिनेता शाहरुख खान का सलमान खान और फराह खान से मतभेद जगजाहिर है। पिछले दिनों एक शो पर उन्होंने इस बात को कुबूल किया कि वो अपने दोस्तों से अपनी गलतियों के लिए सॉरी बोल पाने में असमर्थ रहे, इसी कारण उन्होंने अपने करीबी दोस्तों को खो दिया।

गलती करना तो इंसान का स्वभाव होता है लेकिन गलती मानना हर इंसान का स्वभाव नहीं होता।

कई बार दो अक्षरों का लफ्ज सॉरी बोलना बेहद मुश्किल हो जाता है। हम सब जानते हैं कि अगर सही तरह से सॉरी बोला जाए तो बडी से बडी गलती की भी माफी मिल सकती है।

माफी मांगने का तरीका काफी हद तक हमारे मनोविज्ञान से जुडा होता है।

I think :

" इंसानी फितरत में अहंकार अहम भूमिका अदा करता है। ऐसे में कई बार इंसान चाह कर भी सॉरी नहीं बोल पाता। कई बार ज्यादा करीबी रिश्तों में फॉर ग्रांटेड लेने की वजह से भी सॉरी बोल पाना जरा मुश्किल सा लगता है। लेकिन अगर आपको समय पर अपनी गलती का अहसास हो जाए तो संबंध खराब होने से बच जाते हैं।

गलती का अहसास होने के साथ गलती की माफी मांगना भी उतना ही जरूरी है।

माफी मांगने का सही तरीका भी यहां बहुत अहमियत रखता है। सही तरीका यानी सामने वाले को यह पता चल जाना चाहिए कि आपको वाकई अपनी गलती पर अफसोस है।

माफी मांगना तब तक कारगर नहीं होता जब तक आप खुद से यह प्रण न कर लें कि दोबारा आप वही गलती नहीं करेंगे। डॉ. विचित्रा कहती हैं, फिल्म चक दे में एक सीन था जब एक हॉकी प्लेयर दूसरी को सॉरी बोलती है। एक बार में जवाब न देने पर वह कहती है.. सॉरी देती है कि नहीं, वरना दूं एक रख के..।

माफी मांगने का यह तरीका उपयुक्त नहीं है। अगर सही तरीके से माफी मांगी जाए तो बात आसानी से बन जाती है।

कई बार बात खत्म करने के लिए एक पक्ष का माफी मांगना अच्छा रहता है।

माफी मांगने से कोई छोटा-बडा नहीं होता। इसमें ईगो की भी बात नहीं होती। बस इस जरा से लफ्ज से कोई भी मसला आसानी से सुलझ जाता है। हां, इसे बोल पाना जरा मुश्किल जरूर होता है लेकिन यह काफी असरदार चीज है।

मसलन शाहरुख को ही ले लीजिए। अगर यह सॉरी जो उन्होंने शो पर बोला अपने दोस्तों के सामने बोल सकते तो शायद उनके करीबी लोग उनके साथ होते।

कई कपल्स आते हैं जिनमें सिर्फ यही प्रॉब्लम होती है कि वो एक-दूसरे से मौके पर सॉरी नहीं बोल पाते।

अगर समय रहते छोटी-सी बात को छोटे से सॉरी के साथ निबटा लिया जाए तो बातों का ढेर नहीं लगता और रिश्ते आसानी से चलते रहते हैं।

यानी अगर एक लफ्ज से टूटे हुए दिल जुड सकते हैं.....

तो इसका प्रयोग करने में संकोच कैसा !!!!!!???????

DILSHAD SAIFI

+91-9015563789

FIRST KISS...

I know you not
but I know you true
this feeling of comfort
runs deeply through

I have longed for this time
when our souls would collide
in perfect rhythm
in perfect stride
Deep passion abound
thoughts of bliss
Anticipating our first
perfect kiss

Our eyes lock fast
in a love filled gaze
this moment will last
a million days

a wave of pleasure
a most intense heat
filled my body
when our lips did meet

My most romantic memory
I am sure of this
I will always remember
Our first Kiss........!!

DILSHAD SAIFI

+91 -9015563789

TSUNAMI IN JAPAN....

HELLO...........

FRIENDS, HOW ARE YOU ALL..???

I AM FEELING SO SAD ABOUT JAPAN.

AND YOU ALL KNOW ABOUT THIS.

PLEASE PRAY FOR ALL JAPANESE......

I WISH TO GOD THAT NO BODY WOULD FACE THIS TYPE OF PROBLEMS...

MAY GOD WILL HELP THEM....

WISH ALL THE BEST TO JAPAN AND REST OF THE WORLD TOO...............

DILSHAD SAIFI

+91-9015563789

KUCH AISE........

Meri aankhon ko kuch accha na lage

kuch aise tum mujhse nazren milana

k din ka har pal har lamha suhana lage

kuch aise mere sath tum kuch waqt bitana...

k hasi mere labon se utarna na chahe

kuch aise mere liye tum muskurana

k ho jaye mujhe khushiyon ki aadat

kuch aise meri zindagi se gamo ko mitana

k mujhme bhi jage sapne sach karne ki ummeed

kuch aise tum mere liye khwab sajanak

main har raat ka intezaar karoon

kuch aise tum mujhe aasmaan ka wo tara dikhanak

tum dekhti raho mujhe har dam

kuch aise mujhe apne saamne bithana

k main naaraaz hona chahoon baar baar

kuch aise tum mujhe roothne par manana

k karta rahoon tujhe pyaar umar bhar

kuch aise shama-e-mohabbat ko jalana

k ho mera basera kahin aur namumkin

kuch aise... kuch aise ... mujhe apne DIL... me basana

k banjao mere dil ki dhadkan

kuch aise tum mere dil me samana

k namanzoor ho mujhe kisi aur ka hona

kuch aise tum mujhe apna banana

k mujhe baarish ki boonde bhi adhoori lage

kuch aise mujh par tum pyaar barsana

k ban jaye hum mohabbat ki misaal

kuch aise tum is rishtey ko nibhana...

k zindagi ka aakhri pal bhi haseen lage

kuch aise mujhe tum gale se lagana

k maut bhi hume juda na kar paaye

kuch aise main tera ho jaaoon...

kuch aise........tum meri ho jaana................!!

DILSHAD SAIFI

+91- 9015563789

KOYI SATH NA DE MERA............

Koyi saath na de mera, chalna mujhe aata hai...
es duniya me akela hoon main, udna mujhe aata hai...

mushkil ghdiyo mein, hasna meri aadat hai...
har mushkil aur toofano se, ladna mujhe aata hai...
...
milta hai sukoon mujhko, dusro ki madat karne mein...
or
khudgarz amiron se, bachna mujhe aata hai...

hai zulm amiron ka, is duniya mein garibi per...
zaalimo se dur rehna muje aata hai...

jhootho ke farebo se, hai bair sada mujhko...
sachhon ki hifazat mein, marna mujhe aata hai...

mitti se bana hu lekin, hai mera zamir paani......
behna meri fitrat hai, badhna mujhe aata hai... .

bus dar lagta hai to sirf or sirf dhoke se......
har kadam par maine sirf isi ko paya hai....

PAR...ab is dhoke se bhi bchna mujhe aata hai....See More

DILSHAD SAIFI....

You know it's love when forever is not long enough.
It's true we don't know what we've got until its gone,
but we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Love is the shortest distance between hearts.
Life and love are like hide and seek.
People spend their whole lives looking for love,
but when they finally forget to look for it, they find it.
See there's this place in me where your fingerprints still rest,
your kisses still linger, and your whispers softly echo.
It's the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me.
The bad things in life open your eyes to the good
things you weren't paying attention to before.

If you love someone,
do not put their name in a heart because hearts can be broken,
instead put their name in a circle,
because circles go on forever.

Love is just a word until someone you meet gives it a proper meaning........


(DILSHAD SAIFI)

Means of Education....

“Let us think of education as the means of developing our greatest abilities, because in each of us there is a private hope and dream which, fulfilled, can be translated into benefit for everyone and greater strength of the nation.”

jaane dil mein kabse

दिन हुआ है तो रात भी होगी,
हो मत उदास कभी तो बात भी होगी,
इतने प्यार से दोस्ती की है खुदा की कसम
जिंदगी रही तो मुलाकात भी होगी.
कोशिश कीजिए हमें याद करने की
लम्हे तो अपने आप ही मिल जायेंगे
तमन्ना कीजिए हमें मिलने की
बहाने तो अपने आप ही मिल जायेंगे .
महक दोस्ती की इश्क से कम नहीं होती
इश्क से ज़िन्दगी ख़तम नहीं होती
अगर साथ हो ज़िन्दगी में अच्छे दोस्त का
तो ज़िन्दगी जन्नत से कम नहीं होती
सितारों के बीच से चुराया है आपको
दिल से अपना दोस्त बनाया है आपको
इस दिल का ख्याल रखना
क्योंकि इस दिल के कोने में बसाया है आपको .
अपनी ज़िन्दगी में मुझे शरिख समझना
कोई गम आये तो करीब समझना
दे देंगे मुस्कराहट आंसुओं के बदले
मगर हजारों दोस्तो में अज़ीज़ समझना ..
हर दुआ काबुल नहीं होती ,
हर आरजू पूरी नहीं होती ,
जिन्हें आप जैसे दोस्त का साथ मिले ,
उनके लिए धड़कने भी जरुरी नहीं होती ...............................


DILSHAD SAIFI

It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life,
that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself........................

I AM ONLY................

I am only one, but still I am one.
I cannot do everything,
but still I can do something;
and because I cannot do everything,
I will not refuse to do something that I can do......

DILSHAD SAIFI....
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OUR ISLAM SAYS.........

"By Allah, he who withholds his wealth from helping a needy believer will never taste the food of Heaven nor drink from the drink sealed there."

“Whoever has not made any improvements in one day has lost.”

"The love of this fleeting world is the origin of all vices."

"Anger is a destroyer for the heart of a sage; and he who does not have his anger under his control does not have his wisdom under his control, either."


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DEATH........................

Death may be the greatest of all human blessings......

LOVE TO THE WAY................

I love the way you look at me Your eyes so bright and blue I love the way you kiss me Your lips so soft and smooth

I love the way you make me so happy And the ways you show you care I love the way you say, "I Love You" And the way you're always there

I love the way you touch me Always sending chills down my spine I love that you are with me And glad that you are mine..............


DILSHAD SAIFI........

My friend, I need you now-
Please take me by the hand.
Stand by me in my hour of need,
Take time to understand.

Take my hand, dear friend,
And lead me from this place.
Chase away my doubts and fears,
Wipe the tears from off my face.

Friend, I cannot stand alone.
I need your hand to hold,
The warmth of your gentle touch
In my world that's grown so cold.

Please be a friend to me
And hold me day by day.
Because with your loving hand in mine,
I know we'll find the way.

DILSHAD SAIFI............

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Appreciating Our Past

It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth.
Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships we entered, stayed in, or ended taught us necessary lessons.
Some of us have emerged from the most painful circumstances with strong insights about who we are and what we want. Our mistakes? Necessary. Our frustrations, failures, and sometimes stumbling attempts at growth and progress? Necessary too. Each step of the way, we learned. We went through exactly the experiences we need to, to become who we are today. Each step of the way, we progressed. Is our past a mistake? No. The only mistake we can make is mistaking that for the truth.
Today, God, help me let go of negative thoughts I may be harboring about my past circumstances or relationships. I can accept, with gratitude, all that has brought me to today...................................

WORK HARD IN THESE DAYS......

Work hard at what you like to do and try to overcome all obstaclesLaugh at your mistakes and praise yourself for learning from themPick some flowers and appreciate the beauty of nature Say hello to strangers and enjoy the people you knowDon't be afraid to show your emotions laughing and crying make you feel betterLove your friends and family with your entire being they are the most important part of your lifeFeel the calmness on a quiet sunny dayFind a rainbow and live your world of dreams always remember life is better than it seems...............................................

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