WHAT IS OUR LIFE...? THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION FOR US. WE SHOULD BE FIND THE ANSWER OF THIS QUESTION, MAY IT WILL BE DELLAY...? WE ALL HAVE A LAST WISH THAT WE WOULD BE RESPECTED BY OUR CHILDREN... BUT QUESTION IS THAT ARE WE DOING THE SAME WITH OUR PARENTS.....?????? THINK ABOUT IT SERIOUSLY... PLEASE... KAHIN DER NA HO JAAYE...........
04 July 2010
DETERMINATON
In 1883, a creative engineer named John Roebling was inspired by an idea to build a spectacular bridge connecting New York with the Long Island. However bridge building experts throughout the world thought that this was an impossible feat and told Roebling to forget the idea. It just could not be done. It was not practical. It had never been done before.
Roebling could not ignore the vision he had in his mind of this bridge. He thought about it all the time and he knew deep in his heart that it could be done. He just had to share the dream with someone else. After much discussion and persuasion he managed to convince his son Washington, an up and coming engineer, that the bridge in fact could be built.
Working together for the first time, the father and son developed concepts of how it could be accomplished and how the obstacles could be overcome. With great excitement and inspiration, and the headiness of a wild challenge before them, they hired their crew and began to build their dream bridge.
The project started well, but when it was only a few months underway a tragic accident on the site took the life of John Roebling. Washington was injured and left with a certain amount of brain damage, which resulted in him not being able to walk or talk or even move.
"We told them so.""Crazy men and their crazy dreams.""It`s foolish to chase wild visions."
Everyone had a negative comment to make and felt that the project should be scrapped since the Roeblings were the only ones who knew how the bridge could be built. In spite of his handicap Washington was never discouraged and still had a burning desire to complete the bridge and his mind was still as sharp as ever.
He tried to inspire and pass on his enthusiasm to some of his friends, but they were too daunted by the task. As he lay on his bed in his hospital room, with the sunlight streaming through the windows, a gentle breeze blew the flimsy white curtains apart and he was able to see the sky and the tops of the trees outside for just a moment.
It seemed that there was a message for him not to give up. Suddenly an idea hit him. All he could do was move one finger and he decided to make the best use of it. By moving this, he slowly developed a code of communication with his wife.
He touched his wife's arm with that finger, indicating to her that he wanted her to call the engineers again. Then he used the same method of tapping her arm to tell the engineers what to do. It seemed foolish but the project was under way again.
For 13 years Washington tapped out his instructions with his finger on his wife's arm, until the bridge was finally completed. Today the spectacular Brooklyn Bridge stands in all its glory as a tribute to the triumph of one man's indomitable spirit and his determination not to be defeated by circumstances. It is also a tribute to the engineers and their team work, and to their faith in a man who was considered mad by half the world. It stands too as a tangible monument to the love and devotion of his wife who for 13 long years patiently decoded the messages of her husband and told the engineers what to do.
Perhaps this is one of the best examples of a never-say-die attitude that overcomes a terrible physical handicap and achieves an impossible goal.
Often when we face obstacles in our day-to-day life, our hurdles seem very small in comparison to what many others have to face. The Brooklyn Bridge shows us that dreams that seem impossible can be realised with determination and persistence, no matter what the odds are.
Even the most distant dream can be realized with determination and persistence.........
FRIENDSsssssssss.............
As we walk our path of life,We meet people everyday.Most are simply met by chance.But, some are sent our way.
These become special friendsWhose bond we can't explain;The ones who understand usAnd share our joy and pain.Their love contains no boundaries.So, even we are apart.Their presence enhances usWith a warmth felt in the heart.This love becomes a passageway,When even the miles disappear.And so, these friends, God sends our way,Remain forever near.
Author : Dilshad Saifi
Friends poems
Friends Poems so cute !
Friends Forever
Friends are friends forever together 'till the end.
You promised me that you would always be my friend.
One day something changed I'm not sure what it was.
I lost you on that day and the reason was because
it was a late dark night and we had a stupid fight.
And for some reason, I don't know why, we couldn't make it right.
We went our separate ways.
This went on for days and days.
I made new friends and you made yours,
but that hole in my heart could not be filled for that hole was only yours.
Times got really tough,
my road of life was, oh, so rough.
I needed friends, not the kind you see from day to day,
but the kind that will always and forever stay.............
A Lesson in Life
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.
If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.
Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.
You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it...............
Be thankful
Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don't know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn.
Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow.
Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement.
Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you're tired and weary, because it means you've made a difference.
It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.
Allow Your Own Inner Light to Guide You
There comes a time when you must stand alone.You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.You must be willing to make sacrifices.You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.
03 July 2010
GOD LOVES TO US
God LOVES you and offers a wonderful PLAN for your life.
God's Love"God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 NIV).
God's Plan[Christ speaking] "I came that they might have life, and might have it abundantly" [that it might be full and meaningful] (John 10:10). Why is it that most people are not experiencing
the abundant life?
Because.......?????
How to get back ex boyfriend........
A girl was very sad to learn that her boyfriend left her because she has no time for him. Boyfriend left her with no good reason. She asked herself how she can get her boyfriend back.I guess true love is not true and very few people find true love in their life time. Boyfriend and girlfriend left us without good reasons, we sometimes ask who are we meant to be, who is the right one for us, who is our destiny, and where is fate going to lead us. Many times we want to marry the girl that we really love, but sometimes we went to leave the girl. Ex-boyfriend and Ex-girlfriend are trying to bring back what they used to have, but did not really care when their love ones was still there with them. Finding true love is really very hard now a days. .....
JUST READ IT....
Ek hasin shaam the, wo raat bhi jawan the
wo mere saath saath the, khus khas he wo baat the,
Khamosh lahmhe, Jukhi palken, sard raaton se shant the
Samne tha mera katil, dil main machlte jajbat the
Ek peg se pahle wo door the, ek peg ke baad bas suroor the
Wo ek kamra, wo ek bistar, wo kamre main mahkte gulabat the
Wo raat kamayat se jugri jalim
Subha utha to gayab mere pant, shirt, batua aur jurabat the
#2
Haaton main le kar haat,
je karta hai baithe rahe unke saath
Wo jab muskurate hain,
dil main 1000 watt ke bulb jal jaate hain
Wo jab hote hain udas,
Dil ke sakidon tukde ho jaate hain
Jar tukda ek jakham naya de jata hai
Akhon ke aansoo rokne main dil khud ko nakam pata hai
mujhe udas dekh kar wo phir muskurate hain
dil main phir 1000 watt ke bulb jal jaate hain
kitne naadan hain yon muskurane wale,
Aankhon ke aasoo main dil ka bulb jalane wale
Itna bhi nahi jante, idiot pani main current daudte hain
tabhi to hamari life main bar bar short-circuit ho jaate hain.......
A LOVE STORY OF PAKISTAN
Here is next love story for you. Hi this is Chinmaya (Chinnu), better known as Raj. I wan to say something about my love. Please kindly read it and answer for me. I am from an upper middleclass family. My father is Police Officer and my mum is a house wife. At that time I am doing graduation in science first year. I saw my love Sunita first time in my institute on 1st November 2002 at6 pm. Lekin mein yei nanhi janta tha ke woh meri jindegi ka ek hisa ban jayegi and I can’t live without her. Now I am totally mad about her. Kynuki mein tab ladkiyon se baat kiya nanhi karta tha ‘coz I think every girls are one type i.e. bewaafa. Magar jabse mein use mila my mind totally changed and my thinking also has been changed. Jab mein use mila use baat kiya, useke bare mein jana, usese dosti ki then I think I fall in love with her. Jab mene use proposes kiya toh usne bola ke, which u wan tat never happened. Usene kaha ke mein apni mam and papa ki ek louti ladki hnu they complete my every wish wat I wan. And they hav a dream about me and my marriage so I don’t wan to break it. Sayad mujhe uski yahi baat bahat pasand aai thi and I go more and more deeper in her love. But she never breaks our frndship and meet me as usually. And frm that day she spends more time with me. Is taraha hamara graducation ke 2 saal beet gaye. Phir harmara institute bhi band ho gaya, hum do alag alag instituteme padhane lage. Magar hamara milna kam nanhi hua tha. Hum pahele ke taraha roz mila karte the. Usa din 17-05-2005, hamara gradution ka last exam. tha. Mein exam. ke liye tayari karke ghar wapis aaraha tha at 10.45pm. I was faced a bombing accident and go to bed for 2 months. Sayad usase bichhad ne ka waqt aagaya tha. Mein use 2 month tak naa dekha naa baat ki. Bas ek do baar phone par hi baat hui thi. Jab tak mein wapas aya everything was change. She joined for CAC course for doing MCA under IGINU and kuchh vip maintance jo pehele nanhi the. Uski bare mein khabar bhi milna kam ho gaya, usase milna bhi kam ho gaya. Jab bhi mein use milta tha baas ek hi baat bar bar bola karati thi mujhe milna banda kar do. Par mein kar naa saka. Us douran mein hardware and networking course karne ke liye join ho gaya. Uski CAC ki couse khatam ho gayi. Usa din dec 03, 2005 tha the last met of that year. I think I can’t see her once again.’caz she stops her study and she never came out from her home. Mein bhi uske gali mein jana chhod diya. Sayad yahi tak mere uska sath tha . lekin Bhagwan ka likha aisa nanhi tha. Usa din mein apni aur uski dost Mama ki ghar gaya tha. Aise hi bat kar ke jab mein wapas araha tha. She just calls ‘chinnu’ and say ‘sunita’ doing MBA at ICFAI. I am socked ‘coz she prepared for MCA and doing now MBA. How it’s possible, I back to Mama and ask u kid me. She said no I am not. If don’t believe me then go and she her at ICFAI. Then I go for ICFAI college on 21-09-2006 mein bas use door se dekh kar wapas agaya. Dusare din mein gaya use baat karne ki kosis ki lekin kar nanhi paya. Najane kynu na ek ajab sa dart tha mujh mein. Tisre din phir mein wapis uski college gaya. Usase baat ki par wo muihse kahi ke college mein baat nanhi karungi kynu ki yanha par sab mere naye frnds koi hamare bare me . Tum bahr kanhi par milo. To mein use puchha kab aur kanha. Usne bola ke kal 1pm where u desired. Mein wapas agaya. Dusre din gaya aur ek ghanthe tak baat ki and again the past things are repaeated. Tab tak mera hardware and networking ka corse khatam ho gaya tha. Mujhe bahar jana tha job ke liye. To mene use bol diya ke mein bahar ja rahanhu for job. She asked when? I said this November. Then she said me tum abhi math milo jab tum jaoge use ke pehele din akar mujhse milna. Par mein use milta raha kynuki mujhe malum tha ke mein Mumbai jaraha hnu. Par yai nanhi janta tha ke kab. Aakhir kar November aahi gaya par mera jane ka koi namo nishan hi nanhi tha. She just angry with me. And now she avoid me. Now what will I do. Plz help me somebody. Plz reply me as soon as possible. Coz I don’t know when I move to Mumbai. And may it possible November last week or December first week. Did you like this story? Please give your comments about this story.
Experience
He who experiences the unity of life sees his own Self in all beings, and all beings in his own Self, and looks on everything with an impartial eye.
European Age of Enlightenment
These theorists were driven by two basic questions: one, by what right or need do people form states; and two, what the best form for a state could be. These fundamental questions involved a conceptual distinction between the concepts of "state" and "government." It was decided that "state" would refer to a set of enduring institutions through which power would be distributed and its use justified. The term "government" would refer to a specific group of people who occupied the institutions of the state, and create the laws and ordinances by which the people, themselves included, would be bound. This conceptual distinction continues to operate in political science, although some political scientists, philosophers, historians and cultural anthropologists have argued that most political action in any given society occurs outside of its state, and that there are societies that are not organized into states which nevertheless must be considered in political terms. As long as the concept of natural order was not introduced, the social sciences could not evolve independently of theistic thinking. Since the cultural revolution of the 17th century in England, which spread to France and the rest of Europe, society has been considered subject to natural laws akin to the physical world....
Christian philosophy of Augustine of Hippo
22 June 2010
Relationships....
EMOTIONAL LOVE STORY
“Oh! You kept it a secret all along that you were learning classical music,” Sakshi said.
“Oh, that song is based on raga Jhinjhoti. Do you remember that other song “Ja ja re ja balam va” from old film Basant Bahar and that Kishore Kumar number “Koyi ham dam na raha” from the film Jhumroo and also “Mose chal kiye ja” from the film Guide? All these songs have the same Bandishi or set of dominating notes derived from raga Jhinjhoti. Raga Jhinjhoti is derived from Khamaj thata and its jati is sampoorna-sampoorna meaning there are 7 notes each in aroha and avaroha. In raga Jhinjhoti, the aroha uses all 7 shudh swaras, which are Sa Re Ga Ma Pa Dha Ni, and in avaroha it uses the same set of 7 swaras in reverse except that it uses komal Ni. So avaroha notes are Sa Ni (komal) Dha Pa Ma Ga Re.
“Hats off to you, Akshay. You are a pro in classical music now. I can now say that you have mastered classical music. Next time when I want to find out the raga for some other song, I will have to come back to you,” Sakshi said while encouraging him.
“Only time will tell. But right now I can say that you do not play the flute as well as Lord Krishna, and this could be the reason why nobody is attracted to you. But I am sure someday you will find your love and then you will not have time to talk to me,” Sakshi said.
Preeti was very smart at her studies, and she was helpful to both Sakshi and Akshay and helped both of them whenever they had problems understanding some science concepts.
“What's the matter, Akshay? You are in a very good mood today,” Sakshi said.
“I hope so, Akshay. I think that you are finally close to finding your love,” Sakshi said.
“Oh no! Do you really want to know why I am getting close to him?” Preeti asked.
“I did not tell you until now about a tragedy in my family. About one year ago, my only brother, Ramesh, who was elder to me by 2 years, died in a car accident. Akshay has lots of similarities with Ramesh. Ramesh was also a classical flute player; and what surprised me further was that Akshay played the flute in the same style as my brother Ramesh did and played almost the same ragas as well. I loved my brother Ramesh a lot like any other sister would do. Akshay is very innocent, just like my brother Ramesh was. I see lots of similarities between Akshay and my deceased brother, Ramesh. So I feel that I've found my lost brother, Ramesh. I see Ramesh in Akshay all the time. Actually, I myself should have told this to Akshay and you much earlier. But since this was a very touchy issue for me, I waited for a while. I am actually in love with a bank officer, Rohan who lives in Pune with whom I am going to get married within the next few months, right after my B.Sc. graduation,” Preeti said.
Sakshi could not wait until she told this fact to Akshay. She waited for two days. Then one day when Akshay was sitting alone in the college cafeteria, Sakshi went and sat next to him.
“What is it? What is it?” Akshay almost jumped from his chair as he was overjoyed and thought that finally he was going to hear from Sakshi the confirmation that Preeti loved him.
“Sakshi, then who was the person to whom I tied the Rakhi today?” Preeti asked.
“No! No! It was a real event. Sakshi, please do not say that it was my hallucination. Please! Please! I really tied Rakhi around his wrist today,” Preeti said desperately.