04 July 2010

Touching life story.....

A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted. As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box. Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book. Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL. How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?

GENEROSITY



Mahatma Gandhi went from city to city, village to village collecting funds for the Charkha Sangh. During one of his tours he addressed a meeting in Orissa. After his speech a poor old woman got up. She was bent with age, her hair was grey and her clothes were in tatters. The volunteers tried to stop her, but she fought her way to the place where Gandhiji was sitting. "I must see him," she insisted and going up to Gandhiji touched his feet. Then from the folds of her sari she brought out a copper coin and placed it at his feet. Gandhiji picked up the copper coin and put it away carefully. The Charkha Sangh funds were under the charge of Jamnalal Bajaj. He asked Gandhiji for the coin but Gandhiji refused. "I keep cheques worth thousands of rupees for the Charkha Sangh," Jamnalal Bajaj said laughingly "yet you won't trust me with a copper coin." "This copper coin is worth much more than those thousands," Gandhiji said. "If a man has several lakhs and he gives away a thousand or two, it doesn't mean much. But this coin was perhaps all that the poor woman possessed. She gave me all she had. That was very generous of her. What a great sacrifice she made. That is why I value this copper coin more than a crore of rupees." ..............

DETERMINATON


In 1883, a creative engineer named John Roebling was inspired by an idea to build a spectacular bridge connecting New York with the Long Island. However bridge building experts throughout the world thought that this was an impossible feat and told Roebling to forget the idea. It just could not be done. It was not practical. It had never been done before.
Roebling could not ignore the vision he had in his mind of this bridge. He thought about it all the time and he knew deep in his heart that it could be done. He just had to share the dream with someone else. After much discussion and persuasion he managed to convince his son Washington, an up and coming engineer, that the bridge in fact could be built.
Working together for the first time, the father and son developed concepts of how it could be accomplished and how the obstacles could be overcome. With great excitement and inspiration, and the headiness of a wild challenge before them, they hired their crew and began to build their dream bridge.
The project started well, but when it was only a few months underway a tragic accident on the site took the life of John Roebling. Washington was injured and left with a certain amount of brain damage, which resulted in him not being able to walk or talk or even move.
"We told them so.""Crazy men and their crazy dreams.""It`s foolish to chase wild visions."
Everyone had a negative comment to make and felt that the project should be scrapped since the Roeblings were the only ones who knew how the bridge could be built. In spite of his handicap Washington was never discouraged and still had a burning desire to complete the bridge and his mind was still as sharp as ever.
He tried to inspire and pass on his enthusiasm to some of his friends, but they were too daunted by the task. As he lay on his bed in his hospital room, with the sunlight streaming through the windows, a gentle breeze blew the flimsy white curtains apart and he was able to see the sky and the tops of the trees outside for just a moment.
It seemed that there was a message for him not to give up. Suddenly an idea hit him. All he could do was move one finger and he decided to make the best use of it. By moving this, he slowly developed a code of communication with his wife.
He touched his wife's arm with that finger, indicating to her that he wanted her to call the engineers again. Then he used the same method of tapping her arm to tell the engineers what to do. It seemed foolish but the project was under way again.
For 13 years Washington tapped out his instructions with his finger on his wife's arm, until the bridge was finally completed. Today the spectacular Brooklyn Bridge stands in all its glory as a tribute to the triumph of one man's indomitable spirit and his determination not to be defeated by circumstances. It is also a tribute to the engineers and their team work, and to their faith in a man who was considered mad by half the world. It stands too as a tangible monument to the love and devotion of his wife who for 13 long years patiently decoded the messages of her husband and told the engineers what to do.
Perhaps this is one of the best examples of a never-say-die attitude that overcomes a terrible physical handicap and achieves an impossible goal.
Often when we face obstacles in our day-to-day life, our hurdles seem very small in comparison to what many others have to face. The Brooklyn Bridge shows us that dreams that seem impossible can be realised with determination and persistence, no matter what the odds are.
Even the most distant dream can be realized with determination and persistence.........

FRIENDSsssssssss.............


As we walk our path of life,We meet people everyday.Most are simply met by chance.But, some are sent our way.
These become special friendsWhose bond we can't explain;The ones who understand usAnd share our joy and pain.Their love contains no boundaries.So, even we are apart.Their presence enhances usWith a warmth felt in the heart.This love becomes a passageway,When even the miles disappear.And so, these friends, God sends our way,Remain forever near.

Author : Dilshad Saifi

Friends poems


Friends Poems so cute !
Friends Forever
Friends are friends forever together 'till the end.
You promised me that you would always be my friend.
One day something changed I'm not sure what it was.
I lost you on that day and the reason was because
it was a late dark night and we had a stupid fight.
And for some reason, I don't know why, we couldn't make it right.
We went our separate ways.
This went on for days and days.
I made new friends and you made yours,
but that hole in my heart could not be filled for that hole was only yours.
Times got really tough,
my road of life was, oh, so rough.
I needed friends, not the kind you see from day to day,
but the kind that will always and forever stay.............

A Lesson in Life


Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.
If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.
Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.
You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it...............

Be thankful



Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don't know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn.
Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow.
Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement.
Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you're tired and weary, because it means you've made a difference.
It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.

Allow Your Own Inner Light to Guide You


There comes a time when you must stand alone.You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.You must be willing to make sacrifices.You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.

03 July 2010

GOD LOVES TO US

God LOVES you and offers a wonderful PLAN for your life.
God's Love"God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 NIV).
God's Plan[Christ speaking] "I came that they might have life,
and might have it abundantly" [that it might be full and meaningful] (John 10:10). Why is it that most people are not experiencing

the abundant life?

Because.......?????


How to get back ex boyfriend........


A girl was very sad to learn that her boyfriend left her because she has no time for him. Boyfriend left her with no good reason. She asked herself how she can get her boyfriend back.I guess true love is not true and very few people find true love in their life time. Boyfriend and girlfriend left us without good reasons, we sometimes ask who are we meant to be, who is the right one for us, who is our destiny, and where is fate going to lead us. Many times we want to marry the girl that we really love, but sometimes we went to leave the girl. Ex-boyfriend and Ex-girlfriend are trying to bring back what they used to have, but did not really care when their love ones was still there with them. Finding true love is really very hard now a days. .....

JUST READ IT....


Ek hasin shaam the, wo raat bhi jawan the
wo mere saath saath the, khus khas he wo baat the,
Khamosh lahmhe, Jukhi palken, sard raaton se shant the
Samne tha mera katil, dil main machlte jajbat the
Ek peg se pahle wo door the, ek peg ke baad bas suroor the
Wo ek kamra, wo ek bistar, wo kamre main mahkte gulabat the
Wo raat kamayat se jugri jalim
Subha utha to gayab mere pant, shirt, batua aur jurabat the

#2
Haaton main le kar haat,
je karta hai baithe rahe unke saath
Wo jab muskurate hain,
dil main 1000 watt ke bulb jal jaate hain
Wo jab hote hain udas,
Dil ke sakidon tukde ho jaate hain
Jar tukda ek jakham naya de jata hai
Akhon ke aansoo rokne main dil khud ko nakam pata hai
mujhe udas dekh kar wo phir muskurate hain
dil main phir 1000 watt ke bulb jal jaate hain
kitne naadan hain yon muskurane wale,
Aankhon ke aasoo main dil ka bulb jalane wale
Itna bhi nahi jante, idiot pani main current daudte hain
tabhi to hamari life main bar bar short-circuit ho jaate hain.......

A LOVE STORY OF PAKISTAN


Here is next love story for you. Hi this is Chinmaya (Chinnu), better known as Raj. I wan to say something about my love. Please kindly read it and answer for me. I am from an upper middleclass family. My father is Police Officer and my mum is a house wife. At that time I am doing graduation in science first year. I saw my love Sunita first time in my institute on 1st November 2002 at6 pm. Lekin mein yei nanhi janta tha ke woh meri jindegi ka ek hisa ban jayegi and I can’t live without her. Now I am totally mad about her. Kynuki mein tab ladkiyon se baat kiya nanhi karta tha ‘coz I think every girls are one type i.e. bewaafa. Magar jabse mein use mila my mind totally changed and my thinking also has been changed. Jab mein use mila use baat kiya, useke bare mein jana, usese dosti ki then I think I fall in love with her. Jab mene use proposes kiya toh usne bola ke, which u wan tat never happened. Usene kaha ke mein apni mam and papa ki ek louti ladki hnu they complete my every wish wat I wan. And they hav a dream about me and my marriage so I don’t wan to break it. Sayad mujhe uski yahi baat bahat pasand aai thi and I go more and more deeper in her love. But she never breaks our frndship and meet me as usually. And frm that day she spends more time with me. Is taraha hamara graducation ke 2 saal beet gaye. Phir harmara institute bhi band ho gaya, hum do alag alag instituteme padhane lage. Magar hamara milna kam nanhi hua tha. Hum pahele ke taraha roz mila karte the. Usa din 17-05-2005, hamara gradution ka last exam. tha. Mein exam. ke liye tayari karke ghar wapis aaraha tha at 10.45pm. I was faced a bombing accident and go to bed for 2 months. Sayad usase bichhad ne ka waqt aagaya tha. Mein use 2 month tak naa dekha naa baat ki. Bas ek do baar phone par hi baat hui thi. Jab tak mein wapas aya everything was change. She joined for CAC course for doing MCA under IGINU and kuchh vip maintance jo pehele nanhi the. Uski bare mein khabar bhi milna kam ho gaya, usase milna bhi kam ho gaya. Jab bhi mein use milta tha baas ek hi baat bar bar bola karati thi mujhe milna banda kar do. Par mein kar naa saka. Us douran mein hardware and networking course karne ke liye join ho gaya. Uski CAC ki couse khatam ho gayi. Usa din dec 03, 2005 tha the last met of that year. I think I can’t see her once again.’caz she stops her study and she never came out from her home. Mein bhi uske gali mein jana chhod diya. Sayad yahi tak mere uska sath tha . lekin Bhagwan ka likha aisa nanhi tha. Usa din mein apni aur uski dost Mama ki ghar gaya tha. Aise hi bat kar ke jab mein wapas araha tha. She just calls ‘chinnu’ and say ‘sunita’ doing MBA at ICFAI. I am socked ‘coz she prepared for MCA and doing now MBA. How it’s possible, I back to Mama and ask u kid me. She said no I am not. If don’t believe me then go and she her at ICFAI. Then I go for ICFAI college on 21-09-2006 mein bas use door se dekh kar wapas agaya. Dusare din mein gaya use baat karne ki kosis ki lekin kar nanhi paya. Najane kynu na ek ajab sa dart tha mujh mein. Tisre din phir mein wapis uski college gaya. Usase baat ki par wo muihse kahi ke college mein baat nanhi karungi kynu ki yanha par sab mere naye frnds koi hamare bare me . Tum bahr kanhi par milo. To mein use puchha kab aur kanha. Usne bola ke kal 1pm where u desired. Mein wapas agaya. Dusre din gaya aur ek ghanthe tak baat ki and again the past things are repaeated. Tab tak mera hardware and networking ka corse khatam ho gaya tha. Mujhe bahar jana tha job ke liye. To mene use bol diya ke mein bahar ja rahanhu for job. She asked when? I said this November. Then she said me tum abhi math milo jab tum jaoge use ke pehele din akar mujhse milna. Par mein use milta raha kynuki mujhe malum tha ke mein Mumbai jaraha hnu. Par yai nanhi janta tha ke kab. Aakhir kar November aahi gaya par mera jane ka koi namo nishan hi nanhi tha. She just angry with me. And now she avoid me. Now what will I do. Plz help me somebody. Plz reply me as soon as possible. Coz I don’t know when I move to Mumbai. And may it possible November last week or December first week. Did you like this story? Please give your comments about this story.

Experience


He who experiences the unity of life sees his own Self in all beings, and all beings in his own Self, and looks on everything with an impartial eye.

European Age of Enlightenment

During the Enlightenment period, new theories about what the human was and is and about the definition of reality and the way it was perceived, along with the discovery of other societies in the Americas, and the changing needs of political societies (especially in the wake of the English Civil War, the American Revolution and the French Revolution) led to new questions and insights by such thinkers as Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Montesquieu and John Locke.
These theorists were driven by two basic questions: one, by what right or need do people form states; and two, what the best form for a state could be. These fundamental questions involved a conceptual distinction between the concepts of "state" and "government." It was decided that "state" would refer to a set of enduring institutions through which power would be distributed and its use justified. The term "government" would refer to a specific group of people who occupied the institutions of the state, and create the laws and ordinances by which the people, themselves included, would be bound. This conceptual distinction continues to operate in
political science, although some political scientists, philosophers, historians and cultural anthropologists have argued that most political action in any given society occurs outside of its state, and that there are societies that are not organized into states which nevertheless must be considered in political terms. As long as the concept of natural order was not introduced, the social sciences could not evolve independently of theistic thinking. Since the cultural revolution of the 17th century in England, which spread to France and the rest of Europe, society has been considered subject to natural laws akin to the physical world....

Christian philosophy of Augustine of Hippo

The early Christian philosophy of Augustine of Hippo was by and large a rewrite of Plato in a Christian context. The main change that Christian thought brought was to moderate the Stoicism and theory of justice of the Roman world, and emphasize the role of the state in applying mercy as a moral example. Augustine also preached that one was not a member of his or her city, but was either a citizen of the City of God (Civitas Dei) or the City of Man (Civitas Terrena). Augustine's City of God is an influential work of this period that refuted the thesis, after the First Sack of Rome, that the Christian view could be realized on Earth at all - a view many Christian Romans held........