15 December 2010

समाधान



एक बूढा व्यक्ति था। उसकी दो बेटियां थीं। उनमें से एक का विवाह एक कुम्हार से हुआ और दूसरी का एक किसान के साथ।
एक बार पिता अपनी दोनों पुत्रियों से मिलने गया। पहली बेटी से हालचाल पूछा तो उसने कहा कि इस बार हमने बहुत परिश्रम किया है और बहुत सामान बनाया है। बस यदि वर्षा न आए तो हमारा कारोबार खूब चलेगा।
बेटी ने पिता से आग्रह किया कि वो भी प्रार्थना करे कि बारिश न हो।
फिर पिता दूसरी बेटी से मिला जिसका पति किसान था। उससे हालचाल पूछा तो उसने कहा कि इस बार बहुत परिश्रम किया है और बहुत फसल उगाई है परन्तु वर्षा नहीं हुई है। यदि अच्छी बरसात हो जाए तो खूब फसल होगी। उसने पिता से आग्रह किया कि वो प्रार्थना करे कि खूब बारिश हो।
एक बेटी का आग्रह था कि पिता वर्षा न होने की प्रार्थना करे और दूसरी का इसके विपरीत कि बरसात न हो। पिता बडी उलझन में पड गया। एक के लिए प्रार्थना करे तो दूसरी का नुक्सान। समाधान क्या हो ?
पिता ने बहुत सोचा और पुनः अपनी पुत्रियों से मिला। उसने बडी बेटी को समझाया कि यदि इस बार वर्षा नहीं हुई तो तुम अपने लाभ का आधा हिस्सा अपनी छोटी बहन को देना। और छोटी बेटी को मिलकर समझाया कि यदि इस बार खूब वर्षा हुई तो तुम अपने लाभ का आधा हिस्सा अपनी बडी

बहन को देना............।



Dil..............

[DILSHAD SAIFI]

उलझन ........




‘ए फॉर एप्पल, बी फॉर बैट’ एक देसी बच्चा अँग्रेजी पढ़ रहा था। यह पढ़ाई अपने देश भारत में पढ़ाई जा रही थी।


‘ए फार अर्जुन – बी फार बलराम’ एक भारतीय संस्था में एक भारतीय बच्चे को विदेश में अँग्रेजी पढ़ाई जा रही थी।


अपने देश में विदेशी ढंग से और विदेश में देसी ढंग से। अपने देश में, ‘ए फॉर अर्जुन, बी फॉर बलराम’ क्यों नहीं होता? मैं उलझन में पड़ गया।


मैं सोचने लगा अगर अँग्रेजी हमारी जरूरत ही है तो
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‘ए फार अर्जुन – बी फार बलराम’ ही क्यों न पढ़ा जाए?



Dil .......................

+91 - 9015563789

14 December 2010

खुशामद.....


एक नामुराद आशिक से किसी ने पूछा,

'कहो जी, तुम्हारी माशूका तुम्हें क्यों नहीं मिली।'

बेचारा उदास होकर बोला,

'यार कुछ न पूछो! मैंने इतनी खुशामद की कि उसने अपने को
सचमुच ही परी समझ लिया और हम आदमियों से बोलने में
परहेज किया।'.......



Dilshad saifi


+91 - 9015563789

13 December 2010



The most destructive habit Worry
The greatest joy Giving
The most endangered species Dedicated leaders
Our greatest natural resource Our youth
The greatest “shot in the arm” Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome Fear
The most effective sleeping pill Peace of mind
The most crippling disease Excuses
The most powerful force in life Love
The most destructive pariah Gossip
The most incredible computer The human brain
The worst thing to be without Hope
The deadliest weapon The tongue
The two most powerful words Can do
The greatest asset Faith
The most worthless emotion Self-pity
The worst thing you can lose Self-respect
The most satisfying work Helping others
The ugliest personality trait Selfishness
The most beautiful attire A smile!
The most prized possession Integrity
The most contageous spirit Enthusiasm
The most powerful communication Prayer


To the world, you may be just one person;but to one person, you may be the world!Measure wealth not by the things you have, but by thethings you have for which you would not take money. If you bring macaroni and cheese to a covered dish supper,don't expect to dine on

lobster and filet mignon.A coffee grinder on sale at a 90% discount isnot a great buy if you don't drink coffee......


DILSHAD SAIFI....

FIRST KISS .............


The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender.......

The truth is that there is only one terminal dignity-love.
And the story of a love is not important-what is important is
that one is capable of love. It is perhaps the only glimpse we are
permitted of eternity.
Author :
DILSHAD SAIIF
+91-9015563789

10 December 2010

NICE WEATHER...

HI.....
FRIENDS....

LOOK THE CURRENT WHEATHER.....
HOW BEATUIFUL IT IS....?

SUCH A GREAT WHEATHER....i

02 November 2010


"When two people become one flesh by

way of marriage,

it is not only their hearts that are united,

but their minds and souls as well............"


DILSHAD SAIFI....

+91- 9871758199

08 September 2010


I wish you all a very very "HAPPY ID UL FITER"....


I WISH ALSO TO ALLAHA THAT YOU WILL BE GET EVERYTHING, WHICH YOU WANT IN YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIFE.....


KEEP ALWAYS A LARGE SMILE ON YOUR FACE....


THAT'S MY REQUEST TO YOU.....


THANKS & REGARDS:


DILSHAD SAIFI....

+91 - 9015563789

06 September 2010


Love is simple, respect, trust and understanding.

We live such short lives with loads of problems, stress, crisis.

There is evil but it is certainly man made.

Greed, selfishness, egos and intolerance are the main reason for evil.

Kids at school should learn simple values that will keep them good for life.

Love each other, help each other please....................................................

दिल बहला लो, हंस लो मुस्कुरा लो जिंदगी है, बस दिन चार दिल ना लगाना इस दुनिया में वरना चार दिन गुज़ारना हो जायेगा मुश्किल.

हर दिन होगा युगों सा

हर पल सालों सा बीतेगा

हासिल होता नहीं कुछ भी दर्द-ए-दिल के सिवा अंजामे-दिल तो सबको पता ही है. ...

03 September 2010

40 TIPS FOR YOUR HEALTH


1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga and prayer. They provide uswith daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less foodthat is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Insteadinvest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problemsare simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away likealgebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
20. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree…
22. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
23. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what theirjourney is all about. Don’t compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you..
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. GOD heals everything.
28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friendswill. Stay in touch.
30. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
31. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
32. The best is yet to come.
33. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up..
34. Do the right thing!
35. Call your family often.
36. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
37. Each day give something good to others.
38. Eat more fruits and Vegetables. Good for Health.
39. Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
40. when you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it...

DILSHAD SAIFI.....

+91 - 9015563789

HOPEEEe.........




So many stories here. So much hope.


I'm grateful to all the patients here.


Though I haven't met each one,


their presence alone reminds me of the healing power of hope.



I wonder what you, dear reader, hope for.



DILSHAD SAIFI....

17 August 2010

Three best things

Three best things:

A little seed in good soil

A few cows in good grass

A few friends in tavern.........